What are your biggest challenges to a satisfying relationship? 

Read my article about ACASA,   and then return here to apply.

By sharing your situation with me, which I treat with great respect and confidentiality (as noted below*), I offer you, if selected, an opportunity for you to break out of a gridlocked, stalemated situation with your spouse or romantic partner, with professional, relationship coaching, at no cost to you.

Of all the entries, I select the 3 that seem to me to be:

• truly solvable (though it seems gridlocked to you).  I use criteria for this based on marriage research presented by Dr. John Gottman,
  Dr. Howard Markman and others, and on materials developed by the Relationship Coaching Institute (where I am on the faculty).
   
• truly coachable.  Both of the couple (any stage of life, any orientation) must be willing to be engaged in the process of applying the ACASA formula to their relationship, that is, finding ways to get both your needs met, agreeing to behavior changes and being accountable for results.

*Confidentiality:  By entering your details below, you agree to allow me to use your information (identifying you only by your first names) in publications, or as I see fit.  Your email will only be used in conjunction with coaching, and will not be displayed or shared with others.